When a man says no in this culture, it’s the end of the discussion. When a woman says no, it’s the beginning of a negotiation.
Gavin De Becker (via dandyions)
I have noticed every time, EVERY TIME, I state a strong opinion about something on Facebook - a bunch of men will come forward to try to talk me out of it or convince me of something else. Every time. Only the men do this.
Some men really don’t like to be disagreed with by women. And when it comes to consent in sex-positivism, it is a tool for negotiation.
See also, when a woman states that she is strongly opposed to MRA (or, you know, insert whatever ideology or viewpoint) because it is anti-woman, and men try to negotiate her boundaries with her.
Oh my god THIS. Recently I made a Facebook status telling rape apologist MRAs to unfriend me, two cis men privately messaged me, after I unfriended them no less, to try to convince me I was wrong.
99% of men are just disgusting, and it makes me sad and angry.
Wow I’ve never really heard it put this way before but it’s so fucking true.
I AM SO SICK AND TIRED OF SEEING POSTS THAT DONT EQUATE GOOD GRADES TO INTELLIGENCE LIKE BITCH DO YOU KNOW HOW FUCKING HARD IT IS TO GRASP A CONCEPT IN A CLASS LIKE CALC OR PHYSICS AND GENUINELY UNDERSTAND IT AND THEN BE ABLE TO APPLY IT TO DIFFERENT SCENARIOS ON DIFFERENT ASSESSMENTS LIKE THAT ISNT FUCKING REGURGITATION ITS INTELLIGENCE AND ITS A DAMN GOOD FEELING GETTING A GOOD GRADE ON SOMETHING WHEN YOU ARE GENUINELY SMART SO FUCKING STOP IT
if i was in a fictional universe i wouldn’t be the main character i’d probably be that friend of the main character who lacks supernatural powers or special abilities but makes up for it with sarcasm and really lame one-liners
Plot twist: The next companion is a normal girl/boy who only dies once in their lifetime and has no remarkable back story but he thinks they’re wonderful because they are human and the Doctor needs reminding that you don’t need to be a mystery to be remarkable.
A Glasgow nightclub has installed a two-way mirror which allows male revellers in private booths to spy on unsuspecting women as they visit the toilet! With no notification or signage anywhere in the venue many female club goers have been left feeling embarrassed and used. Although they do briefly show the mirrors in a promo video, the club has been quickly deleting comments and posts on their social media from club goers trying to alert others to the situation. This is pretty much illegal and hugley violates privacy. Thank you The Shimmy Club for giving us a shiny, new, creative and cool take on objectification.
i’m never leaving my house again, this world is just too fucked up.
gross gross gross gross gross
Good morning disgusting.
- “No space, leave the place” (fingernail test)
- A two way mirror must be set INTO the wall, not placed on top of it.
- If you rap/knock against the mirror, one installed onto a wall (a normal mirror) will make a dull sound, because there’s something behind it. A two-way will have more reverberation.
- Use the flashlight on your phone to shine on the mirror, if it’s a two-way, you’ll be able to see into the other room.
- You can also shield your eyes and see in if you lean up against the glass.
- The room being viewed will have to be brightly lit (10x brighter than the room looking in), so if you’re in a typical dimly lit club bathroom, you’re ok.
why don’t they have big hyped up award shows for books
best male/female character
best plot development
best plot twist
owning a gun
- is a right
- is a privilege
#BOOM: APPEARING IN THE ACTUAL FIRE AND A CLOUD OF SMOKE #BOOM: DRINKING CHAMPAGNE INSTEAD OF TEA#BAM: BITCHES I KNOW THE DOCTOR’S NAME #(spoiler alert: I fucked it out of him) #BAM I AM FABULOUS AND I WILL SLAP YOU AWAKE #BOOM: HERE GOES MY DRINK TO WAKE YOU UP #say what you want but river loves dramatic entrances #and dramatic lines #and dramatic EVERYTHING (via iceinherheart-kissonherlips)
#river song #OKAY but I MEAN THIS IS LITERALLY EVERYTHING #THIS IS WHAT I CAN’T GET OVER#THIS IS WHY RIVER HAS BURROWED SO FAR INTO MY HEART #BECAUSE WHAT I SEE IS THAT RIVER#WAS USED FOR SO LONG #RIVER WAS STOLEN AWAY AND RAISED TO BE AN ASSASIN #TOLD SHE WOULD KILL THIS TERRIBLE MAN #AND SHE WAS MADE INTO A THING NOT A PERSON REALLY #BUT EVEN THEN SHE DIDN’T KNOW HOW OR WHY #”QUITE HONESTLY IT’S ALL A BIT OF A BLUR’ #I MEAN CAN YOU IMAGINE? #RIVER DOESN’T EVEN REMEMBER BECOMING WHO SHE IS IN LET’S KILL HITLER#RIVER’S IDENTITY UNTIL THAT POINT WAS CONSTRUCTED BY THE SILENCE #AND SHE *DOESN’T EVEN REMEMBER* #AND THAT’S ALL YOU HAVE HWEN YOU GET DOWN TO IT — YOURSELF #RIVER PARTICULARLY BECAUSE THE ONLY PERSON SHE’S EVER REALLY TOLD WHO MATTERS IS THE DOCTOR#AND SHE’S MEANT TO HATE HIM AND *DOES* #SO THEN WHEN THIS WHOLE THING UNRAVELS AND SHE PUTS THE PIECES TOGETHER #SHE BUILDS SOMETHING AGGRESSIVELY FABULOUS #SOMETHING INCREDIBLY DRAMATIC AND AWE-INSPIRING #SHE BUILDS HERSELF OUT OF INNUENDO AND WIT AND WINKS AND HALLUCINOGENIC LIPSTICK #SHE WEARS OUTRAGEOUS CLOTHES THAT BORDER ON COSTUMES #SHE MAKES SURE THAT WHEN SHE ENTERS A ROOM #OR A SITUATION OR MEETS SOMEONE NEW #THEY SEE HER JUST EXACTLY HOW SHE WANTS TO BE SEEN #AND THAT IS FUCKING AWESOME TO ME #River Song is exactly who she wants to be exactly how she wants to be it and brooks no argument or judgment #and there’s a STUNNING amoutn of agency and control in that and it’s basically everything (via goodbyeprofessor)
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